Sometimes it takes the bigger person to extend true forgiveness by forgiving even when they feel they have been wronged. Offering the bond of peace to keep the unity of the Spirit is more important than our hurt, which will only consume us. True forgiveness is a matter of humility and a condition of the heart, not just words to say. Remember how much Jesus forgave you and how thankful we are that He also forgets.
What is God speaking to your heart today? Have you harbored unforgiveness against a brother or sister? Have you asked for forgiveness but not treated that person as Christ would have you treat them? Have you allowed you pride to rationalize your behaviors? Maybe you know that someone holds something against you; maybe something you feel is not "justified." God is telling you today that the unity of the Spirit is more important. Extend the bond of peace and gain reconciliation through true forgiveness.
Anthony Wade August 11, 2008.